trippingmermaids:

knowing someone who is obnoxiously sensitive on gender stereotypes is exhausting. “only girls do that.”, “that’s not a guy thing!”, “only girls say things like that!”, “guys don’t do that.”, etc are only some of the things my step dad says to my brothers on a daily fucking basis. FUCK YOUR GENDER NORMS. let them be who they want to be and express themselves however they feel most comfortable. your parenting style is disgusting. you’re so focused on appearance and habits being help up to your archaic standards rather than making sure they feel content with themselves. I’ve learned so much just by bad example.