having a nice domestic life is an achievable goal for us. if it’s what you want, you absolutely can have a wife and children and a dog and live in a house with a swingset in a big backyard. it seems really impossible sometimes, and lots of people tell us that we won’t or shouldn’t be able to, but they’re wrong.
I actually…have a wife, and a dog, and a big backyard with a play set, and I’m pregnant with our first kid. So, you know, this CAN actually happen even if you think it never will ‘cause I sure as hell never expected to end up here in this life.